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Showing posts with label home study. Show all posts
Showing posts with label home study. Show all posts

Thursday, June 23, 2011

home study: complete!

our living room


It makes me so happy to write those words, "home study: complete"!  We had the best caseworker in the world.  She was thorough, but in a very casual way.  She was encouraging and helpful.  And she was hilarious!  My interview took us 2 1/2 hours to finish because she was cracking me up so much!

Between the requirements of the state and those of our agency, we had a total of six interviews to complete.  We were all interviewed separately and then John and I had two interviews together.  Moonpie is super friendly and comfortable to talk with anyone, but Buddy is much more shy.  He was really apprehensive about his interview time.  Our caseworker, J, set up her Farmville game on her computer.  He loves video games so he went over to check it out.  Through the course of her explaining the game to him, she completed his interview!  He didn't even know what hit him!  I was so thankful for her flexibility.

Yesterday she walked through the house checking for things like smoke detectors, fire extinguishers, clean floors, etc.  Before she left she gave us big hugs and said she'd call us next week to check on us.

Not only did we complete our home study yesterday, but I also received our picture portfolio in the mail!  I'm still waiting on the hard bound one so I can send them into the agency.  The birth moms use the portfolios to help choose the family they think will be a good match.

As far as the requirements go, we are done.  Now the real waiting begins.
Waiting to be chosen.
Like a big, really important game of kick ball.  Hoping the team captain chooses you.  We are so ready to be put in the game!

Tuesday, June 14, 2011

adoption update

We have a home study scheduled!!!

I am just a little over the moon excited about this!  (As if the overuse of exclamation points didn't clue you in to that.)

It is going to take place one week from today.  We are working with a woman that our agency contacted on our behalf.  She is already cracking me up just from messages and our one phone conversation.  Thank you Lord for giving us a caseworker with a sense of humor!

In the mean time, I'm working on our photo book and leaving helpful reminders to my husband to write his "about me" section.  You know, while he's on his second mission trip in a row.  Ahem.  Let's be honest.  I've known the man since he was 15 years old.  I'm pretty sure I can write it and even have it sound like him.  And he's confidently hopeful that it's going to play out that way.

As of right now, I'm not anxious or nervous at all.  I've had enough friends go through this process to know that it really isn't a scary occurrence.  I'm just day dreaming about all of the food I'm going to make for her.  Oh, and where to strategically place the fire extinguisher.  I thought it was weird when my mom gave it to me in my stocking, but now I'm completely down with it!

If you've had a home study, please tell us all a little about your experience!